Last week Cait Flanders wrote about how some people treated happiness as a general vibe that they exude and others pursued happiness as a destination. Thinking about this idea started me on a path that had me digging back through my notes on happiness research.
Our culture tends to treat happiness as a destination. Happiness is a goal for which you strive. And of course, the most surefire way to reach happiness is to be successful.
When we focus on wealth inequality, we always focus on the people above us.
We think of Occupy Wall Street protesting outside of investment banks. We think of Bernie Sanders gesticulating wildly while telling us about millionaires and billionaires. We think of Mitt Romney and friends with money coming out of their suits.
You may have noticed that the last few days have been quite geared towards consumerism.
First, you had Black Friday, which in many places now actually starts on Thanksgiving.
Next came Small Business Saturday, which came about as a response to Black Friday intended to help smaller companies keep up with the big box stores.
And finally, yesterday, we had Cyber Monday, when the online retailers follow suit.
That’s quite a few days aimed directly at getting us to buy more things.
If you’re frustrated by the increasing consumerism and focus on buying stuff that has consumed the weekend after Thanksgiving, you are not alone. One group is trying to shift the focus from consumerism to charity. Continue reading “Happy Giving Tuesday!”